If you're anything like me you're completely over all those junk spam emails about viagra and think it's just about men being able to maintain an erection - important in itself but really, all those junk emails are way overboard. So when I was watching one of those sexual health programs on SBS I gained a completely fresh perspective about those little blue pills.

Here's 7 great reasons for promoting the little blue pill:

1. Men's desire for an erection leads then to the doctors to get a prescription - once at the doctors they are getting a health check and this is letting the early signs of heart attacks and strokes being detected, fixed and improving men's health. This saves women from having to nag their man about going to the doctor and really, one less thing to follow him up on makes for a better life.

2. Improving a man's sexual abilities makes for a happier man rather than a grumpier man who's deeply unhappy about his beloved penis, and really, we do love them and we do want them to be happy. A happier partner makes for a happier life for us.

3. With more regular use the penis is just like any other part of our bodies - it works better and has more stamina making for longer erections and (hopefully) better sex for you.

4. Sex is a key way men share intimacy and with more confidence about their ability to show their affection they become more secure in showing affection and intimacy in the various ways women need.

5. The little blue pill works better when men exercise regularly and maintain a healthy weight and one of the best forms of motivation for weight loss is sexual satisfaction. When men feel they are pleasing their beloved partner more they'll want to keep doing this. By getting to the doctors, having a health check, taking action to make the magic pill work best the overall health is improved, making for a better life.

6. Men often withdraw into themselves when they are feeling sexually inadequate so when they feel their sexual performance is much closer to where they want to be their confidence improves. This makes them much easier to live with as they are less defensive and more secure within themselves.

7. With improved self confidence and intimacy comes better communication within relationships creating a richer, happier and more rewarding romantic relationship.

Having your man healthier, happier and more intimate makes for a better, loving relationship for you. We all want a strong and vibrant romantic relationship in our lives.

And if you're feeling your sex drive may need some help take the opportunity to talk with your doctor about your fears, you could easily find there's nothing to worry about and a whole heap to gain. Remember, communication makes a really positive difference in your treasured relationship.